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In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
I’ve heard people say a lot of questionable things before in the receiving lines at funerals. A really popular one nowadays is the phrase, “I’m sorry,” as if they were somehow responsible what happened. Another one that you’ll hear is something like “how are doing,” as if they don’t already know that you can’t being doing that great because your loved one just died. Sometimes people even panic and ask things like, “how did they die,” which I always want to respond to with, “it was sin.” I can still remember, though, how one time at my mom’s funeral some poor guy accidently asked, “what are you going to do with the house?” And that wasn’t after saying bunch of other stuff beforehand and building up to it. He just sort of blurted it out of his mouth.
But never in my life, and I’ve been to many funerals before, have I ever heard someone say anything close to what Jesus said to the grieving widow in our Gospel lesson from Luke chapter 7. I’ve never heard anyone say, “stop crying.” And yet that’s exactly what Jesus said isn’t it? As our text tells us, “And when the Lord saw her, He had compassion on her and said to her, “Do not weep.”
So, in this morning’s sermon, I’m going to give a defense for what Jesus said, and explain what He meant by it, what we can learn from it, and why, as always, He was right when He said it.
First, I think it’s important for us to recognize that Jesus certainly didn’t tell the widow at Nain not to cry at the death of her son because death is something good that we should celebrate. That’s not what our Lord was getting at at all. Even Jesus Himself at another time in His life personally wept at the death of His friend Lazarus. I’ve always made a point of sharing that detail with grieving families. If even Jesus, who has a much more mature and informed understanding of death that you do, could weep and be sad at the loss of His loved one, then you’re allowed to shed a few tears at the loss of your loved ones too. It’s not unchristian to cry at a funeral. It’s just that we Christians grieve in a different kind of way. We do not grieve as those who have no hope.
Regardless, though, this whole modern notion that death is just the circle of life, and that we should treat it as a natural part of being human, is totally foreign to the Biblical witness. God didn’t create us to die. He created us to live! Death isn’t our friend. The Bible says that it’s our enemy. In fact, it says that it’s our last enemy, meaning, our greatest one. The only reason that we at all, is because we bring it upon ourselves as punishment for our sins. I know that lots of people don’t like to hear that nowadays, but that’s what the Word of God says. As Saint Paul writes in Romans chapter 6, “the wages of sin is death.” And as it tells us in Romans chapter 5, “so death spread to all men because all sinned.”
So, again, when Jesus told the grieving widow not to cry at the death of her son, that wasn’t because He was trying to get her to embrace death and welcome it as something good. It was the opposite. He wasn’t trying to undermine the terribleness of death, as so many people try to do today, He was trying to magnify the salvation from death that only He can bring.
The first reason why He told the woman not to weep was, of course, because of what He was literally about to do for her. Jesus was about to raise her son from the dead. Just like He did with Jairus’ daughter, just like He did with Lazarus, who had been stinking up the tomb for 4 days, and just like He will one day do for all people on the last day, Jesus was going to bring that man back to new life again.
I love the details that Luke gives us in our text. First, he tells us that our Lord made a point of touching the casket. It’s sort of like when the woman who had the flow of blood touched Jesus’ garment and the Bible says that power went out from Him. Whenever we come into contact with Body of Jesus, there was an exchange. He takes something away from us, and we get something from Him in return. Think about how this happens in Communion. Jesus takes away our sins there, and we get His Body and Blood instead. We get the medicine of immortality, and the antidote to death itself. When our Lord places His healing hand upon us, just like He reached out at touched the casket at Nain, that makes death stop in its tracks. It reverses the effects of our sin, because Christ bears them as His own.
Next, our text says that Jesus talked to the man. That’s an important detail too. He spoke to a guy who literally couldn’t hear anything because his ears didn’t work anymore. But that doesn’t stop the Word of the Lord. God’s Word is living and active, shaper than any two-edged sword. It has the power to create the universe out of nothing, to give us the gift of faith in Christ, and to raise us to new spiritual and physical life. Everything relies on the power of God’s almighty Word. And when we know the promises of God’s Word, we can approach things as difficult as death with a totally different perspective. Like I said earlier, it’s not that we Christians don’t get sad, and aren’t supposed to cry at funerals. Its just that we do it in a totally different way than those who don’t know the Gospel. As Saint Paul writes in 1 Thessalonians 4, “But we do not want you to be uniformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you maybe not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with Him those who have fallen asleep.”
The unbelieving world around us weeps as those who have no hope. They either pretend that death is a good thing, and that they’re happy with in happens, or they despair because they don’t know what will happen next. But we do. God in His mercy has revealed it to us in His Word. We know that because Jesus died and rose, when we die, we will rise again too. We know that because Jesus already paid the full wages for our sin Himself, we won’t have to pay for it eternally. Even when it looks like we pay for it momentarily, that moment doesn’t last very long at all. Through the power of His Word, Christ promises to reverse our death, and bring us to new life once more. In the twinkling of the eye, at the last trumpet, the Bible says, He will raise us, body and soul, and give us back to our loved ones, just as He gave the widow’s son at Nain back to her. That’s the reason why Jesus told her not to weep.
The account of the widow’s son at Nain teaches us Christians how to approach death differently. Yes, we get sad in the face of death because we know that that’s not how God originally designed it to be, and even worse, that we bring death on ourselves due to our sins. But we also know that in Jesus we have the victory over death because of the forgiveness of our sins and that through Him our tears of sadness will one day be transformed into tears of joy.
We can meet death with a smile on our face not because death is our friend, but because Jesus is our friend. Because we have a Savior who suffered and died in our place, and took away death’s power over us for good. He even transformed the horrible event of our dying into doorway and passage to eternal life. That’s one of my favorite lines from the hymnal. We sang in in our hymn of the day today, “Why Should Cross and Trial Grieve me.” The last verse goes like this:
“Now in Christ, death cannot slay me,
Though it might, Day and night
Trouble and dismay me.
Christ has made my death a portal,
From the strife, Of this life
to His joy immortal.”
When someone dies in the faith, they don’t lose anything. “To live is Christ,” Saint Paul says, “but to die is gain.” We don’t lose anything when we die because when you have Jesus and His forgivness you have everything. When you belong to the One who is the Resurrection and the Life, not even death has the power to hurt you. It might sting you, but it can’t destroy you. It might give you some sorrow now, but it cannot end your gladness eternally. Soon, Jesus will command your tears to depart from you for good, just like He did for the woman and Nain. In heaven, He will wipe away every tear from your eyes, when He reunites you will all those who believed in the Lord like you do. He will raise you up, and restore your body back to perfect heath, making it even better than it ever was before, because it will be free from everything that makes it corrupt right now. Your sin will not only be forgiven, it will be gone, and so will all of sins terrible wages.
So, for now, go to where Jesus is. Meet Him in the places where He promises to meet you, in His holy Word and in His Sacraments. Let Him stop you on your way too, and in your mourning over your sin and what it costs you, listen to what He has to say. Receive His healing touch, through His Body and Body, and hear the same words He said to the boy spoken over you, “Young man, I say to, arise.” In Jesus’ Name. Amen.